{"id":69380,"date":"2023-12-04T09:24:52","date_gmt":"2023-12-04T09:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotcelebon.com\/?p=69380"},"modified":"2023-12-04T09:24:52","modified_gmt":"2023-12-04T09:24:52","slug":"my-partner-has-a-secret-family-hes-only-just-told-me-about","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotcelebon.com\/lifestyle\/my-partner-has-a-secret-family-hes-only-just-told-me-about\/","title":{"rendered":"My partner has a secret family he&apos;s only just told me about"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1> My partner has just admitted to having FIVE children he never told me about &#8211; and I never want the three kids we share to see him again<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>One British woman took to Mumsnet to vent about her partner&#8217;s deceitful antics\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE: My overweight husband bought me a gym membership for Christmas after making jokes about my size (despite the fact I&#8217;m fit and healthy)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Every relationship has its setbacks but it&#8217;s not often that your partner lies about his secret estranged family.<\/p>\n<p>One British woman took to Mumsnet\u00a0to vent about her 51-year-old partner&#8217;s deceitful antics after he confessed he had a family of five back in Denmark, despite previously telling her he was too busy with work to have had a big family.<\/p>\n<p>The woman, 18 weeks pregnant with their third child, said that her partner told her that he&#8217;d always wanted a big family before meeting her, but wasn&#8217;t able to because &#8216;<span>work was so busy&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>She asked in her post whether she was wrong to keep her own children from him after the shocking conversation that shook her to her core.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Users immediately came to her defence, raising concerns that he may in fact still be married to another woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78475633-12814827-_stock_image_-a-186_1701607119967.jpg\" height=\"425\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>One British woman took to Mumsnet to vent about her 51-year-old partner&#8217;s deceitful antics after he confessed he had a family of five back in Denmark, despite previously telling her he was too busy with work to have had a big family (stock image)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78479513-12814827-One_man_told_his_partner_that_he_had_a_secret_family_despite_tel-m-191_1701607380236.jpg\" height=\"723\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The poster, 18 weeks pregnant with their third child, said that her partner previously claimed &#8216; he always wanted a big family and never had kids as work was so busy&#8217; but he had just admitted otherwise in a sit down\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The anonymous woman started her post: &#8216;I&#8217;m so b***** mad I don\u2019t even know what to do!&#8217; Tonight he sat me down and told me he had to confess &#8211; right ok? HE HAS 5 CHILDREN.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She explained that her partner is from Malta and moved to\u00a0London\u00a0six years ago after spending most of his life in Norway and\u00a0Denmark, and that she shares two children with him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Yes that\u2019s right &#8211; he has 5 kids back in Denmark, ages 24, 22, 21, 20 and 18. Apparently the 4 eldest are in London this weekend and want to see him for the first time in 6 years!!!!! WHAT.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I&#8217;m so so mad. I\u2019ve never met his family, claims he is an only child (who knows) and his parents are dead (are they?)&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The woman was told her partner had actually kept in touch with his children but they had moved abroad for work or university.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He was due to meet them all while they visited the British capital.\u00a0Shocked and devastated, the woman forced her partner out of their shared home and into a hotel.<\/p>\n<p>She explained that she didn&#8217;t want him near their own children, out of fear of him abandoning them for six years too.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78479063-12814827-image-a-192_1701607799623.jpg\" height=\"102\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78479059-12814827-image-a-193_1701607806425.jpg\" height=\"147\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78521935-12814827-image-a-197_1701607983814.jpg\" height=\"304\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78521933-12814827-image-a-200_1701608008394.jpg\" height=\"238\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/03\/12\/78521941-12814827-image-a-201_1701608014925.jpg\" height=\"222\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Reaction: Mumsnet users comforted the anonymous woman about her shocking situation<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, the woman wasn&#8217;t stuck with him for financial reasons as she has her own income stream but had found out his secret family was receiving money from him.<\/p>\n<p>In a desperate plea she asked: &#8216;What do I do now? We can\u2019t recover from this right? He is psychotic? Can I keep my kids from him or do I just hope he jets off elsewhere and leaves us to it??!<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;AIBU (am I being unreasonable) to feel like the world has just imploded on itself and wonder what the actual f*** is wrong with him!? Why would he lie?!!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>One user<span>\u00a0advised she look into hiring a private investigator, but added: &#8216;Dating a financially secure man who has children &#8211; especially kids who are teens and young adults and don&#8217;t live in the same country &#8211; would not be a dealbreaker for a lot of women&#8217;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>She continued: &#8216;I can&#8217;t see any reason why he never mentioned this? It&#8217;s absolutely insane! I would most definitely start a separation and get your financial ducks in a row.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I&#8217;d also hire a private investigator to look more into his background. Can you call his ex-wife in Denmark? Surely, she may have some information to share!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>A different user was pleased she sent her partner to a hotel, and told her she should be &#8216;furious&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I&#8217;m so glad you sent him to a hotel. You should be furious. I&#8217;d chuck all of his stuff out, take his key\/change the locks, take any joint money and spend it, and don&#8217;t speak to him,&#8217; she finished.<\/p>\n<p>Another sympathetic said: &#8216;Oh god that&#8217;s beyond crazy! How will you ever believe a word he says again? You must feel like your whole relationship is based on lies.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It will be very hard to overcome I think. Sorry you are going through such an awful hurtful mess&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12814827\/My-partner-secret-family-hes-just-told-about.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My partner has just admitted to having FIVE children he never told me about &#8211; and I never want the three kids we share to see him again One British woman took to Mumsnet to vent about her partner&#8217;s deceitful antics\u00a0 READ MORE: My overweight husband bought me a gym membership for Christmas after making jokes about my size (despite [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":69379,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>My partner has a secret family he&amp;apos;s only just told me about - Hotcelebon.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hotcelebon.com\/lifestyle\/my-partner-has-a-secret-family-hes-only-just-told-me-about\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"My partner has a secret family he&amp;apos;s only just told me about - Hotcelebon.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"My partner has just admitted to having FIVE children he never told me about &#8211; 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