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DEAR DEIDRE: I have fallen for my brother\u2019s ex, who he had considered \u201cthe one\u201d.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m worried he\u2019ll hate me if I start a relationship with her.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 32 and she is 30. My brother is 34. He was with this woman for three years. They lived together but split up two years ago.<\/p>\n

While they were together, I didn\u2019t fancy her or have any interest in her. I just thought of her as my brother\u2019s woman.<\/p>\n

But a few months ago, I bumped into her in a bar in town and we got chatting.<\/p>\n

We had a real laugh. We drank a lot too and, later that evening, ended up kissing passionately.<\/p>\n

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We were so caught up in the moment that when it was kicking-out time, I invited her back to mine where we had incredible sex.<\/p>\n

I messaged her the next day and she was friendly but neither of us mentioned what had happened. I was left feeling that for her it was a drunken mistake. <\/p>\n

Since then, we\u2019ve had lots of friendly chats and we\u2019ve become good mates.<\/p>\n

But I don\u2019t know how she feels about me and I think she may be holding back too because she doesn\u2019t want to hurt him.<\/p>\n

I really like her and want more than friendship. The problem is, I think my brother would be really upset. He always used to talk about her as \u201cthe one\u201d.<\/p>\n

She broke up with him and he was gutted for a while. However, he seems over her now and has a new partner. <\/p>\n

Should I ask her out properly, or would that be a mistake?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to wreck my relationship with my brother.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Your brother doesn\u2019t own this woman and she is free to date whoever she likes.<\/p>\n

However, he lived with her for two years and was clearly in love with her. <\/p>\n

Even though he has a new partner, he might still have feelings for her.<\/p>\n

That said, there is no point in risking your relationship with your brother unless you know she is interested in you.<\/p>\n

She is likely to feel awkward about what happened between you. But if you don\u2019t ask her, you will never know how she feels.<\/p>\n

If she does have feelings for you then only you can decide if you like her enough to risk causing family tensions.<\/p>\n

If you decide to talk to your brother, take it slowly, and gauge his reaction step by step.<\/p>\n

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