No boy has ever chatted me up – Am I unattractive? | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: NO boy has ever chatted me up or showed any interest in me. I’m starting to think I must be really unattractive.

I’m a 19-year-old girl at university. All my friends have or have had boyfriends.

I’ve never been very interested in having a boyfriend as I’ve been focusing on my studies, but I’ve started to realise that boys don’t notice me.

I have a few male friends but we’re just mates. None of them have wanted more.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Being attractive isn’t just about having a conventionally nice face or figure. A big part of it is confidence.

I’m sure you look lovely. Perhaps you come across as shy or withdrawn, so people feel they can’t approach you.

Being open and friendly makes someone appealing.

My support packs Raising Self-esteem and Learning About Relationships will  guide you. 


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